I had to ask him this, to see if he thought the same on occasion. And of course, he did. Everybody has doubts at some time. But I found myself answering my own question as I was talking to him on the phone that night.
There is a relationship nowadays, and then there is us. There are relationships that are in place just so it can be called a relationship, there are not so serious 
relationships that were never meant to be in the first place. And there are “boyfriend/girlfriend” relationships, I guess I call it, two people together because they love each other (notice how I spell love there) and like spending time together, and are trying to hold firm this thing they call a relationship. They worry about breaking up sometimes, because they know it can always happen, due to a big fight, or one of them moving away, maybe not getting to spend as much time together as they want.
But what my man and I have. This is not a relationship, and I can’t call it a relationship; it is so much more than that. Maybe that’s why I really don’t like using the term “boyfriend,” because I see that as a relationship type word, and I don’t even see what we have as a relationship.
We are together. We will be for quite a while.
I wonder all the time how people break up, and it all just comes down to the fact that, relationships, generally break up. I’ve said before that it’s all about change, people change, and that causes the break up.
But many things can cause a general “relationship” to break up. Many of the things I mentioned before. You don’t get to see the person as much, or, you had this huge argument and things may never be the same, or something along those lines. Well according to Archie Star, and they are right with these lyrics, “It’s never Love if it’s the girl that you’re giving up.”
Changing, is the only thing that I believe, can cause Love to break.
Love is our relationship. What makes us different is the Love we have for each other. I know Love. And I see it in his eyes, too.
He knows Love.
If you want a long lasting relationship, it’s gotta be Love. It can’t be just love. That won’t last. It’ll end in breaking up, it’ll end in a broken heart or two, because one little thing may light the fuse for the rest of the relationship to just catch fire, and it’s all downhill from there.
As I talked to my best friend tonight, it reassured me more and more that what we have is different. We found each other without even trying. Without even thinking, that this kid that I’m talking to right at that moment, might just be the One. We found Love in such a hopeless place. And we both know it.
This wasn’t your average, “Hey, let’s go on a date or two, see where it goes from there” kind of deal. It wasn’t, “I have a crush on him, I don’t know how to tell him,” and it escalated into something wonderful. It wasn’t, “I think I like you, but I’m not sure.”
No. This was something I never could have even dreamed about.
There’s nothing like looking into someone’s eyes, just a week after meeting him, and knowing, with all your heart, that he is the One you are meant to be with.
And that, is what makes us different.
That, is why we will be the ones to make it.
And that, is why wewill be the ones to show that Love conquers all.
And this… is Love.
We are not in a relationship; we are in Love. Always and forever, we are in Love, and nothing can stop us now.
